That Indefinable "It"

I've been looking for It for years. I've seen glimpses of It in different men that I've dated.

What is "It"? That indefinable thing you are looking for in a partner. Very different for each person, of course.

For me, It is the ability to open his heart completely to me. It is the fact that he sees something special in me, and makes me feel special. It is his ability to make me feel protected and safe. It is the fact that he makes me a priority. It is the belief that True Love is Unconditional. Loyalty is key. A partnership can be forever. It is a commitment to work hard at a relationship, to compromise, to respect, to be fully and completely honest.

UnEx has It. I cannot express how thrilling it is to (finally) be with someone who has It.

You're waiting for the "but", right? Because isn't that how I usually respond to things?

(UnEx has said that if I won a million dollars, I'd say "it should have been two million". Not a compliment, I know, but not completely untrue.)

I just can't get enough of him.